Sleep Hygiene: How to Train your Mind to Fall Asleep Fast & All Night!

This article is a transcribed edited summary of a video Bob and Brad recorded in May of 2021. For the original video go to

Bob: Having trouble sleeping, Brad?

Brad: Well Bob, I've been working on it and getting some wonderful success.

Bob: All right, well, that's what we're going to talk about today, sleep hygiene. How to train your mind to fall asleep fast and all night, so basically, stay asleep.

Brad: That's right, we got seven suggestions or options and you're going to want to go through all of them, and, a bonus!

Bob: And yes, you do want to go through all of them because actually, number six and seven, I’ve never heard of. And, I've read a lot on sleep.

Brad: And, that's why I wanted to get this video out there. So, people are aware of it.

Bob: Where'd you get this information from Brad?

Brad: Oh, good point! I was reading this book, it's called, "Sleep Smarter". This is by Shawn Stevenson. As a matter of fact, I read his book on diet. Actually, not diet, but nutrition. I like his style. I like his background. He's got a really interesting background of completely failed health problems because of his diet, and, he turned himself around. And now, he's very educated, he works with this, that's what he does. He speaks publicly to companies as well as to other areas and other arenas. He's a nice guy and I like his writing. So, this is just a part of this book. When I read this part, I thought, "Man, I gotta share this" Because there are a number of things in there that we've talked about already on our program.

Bob: Like I said, I've read a lot. Like, I read "Why We Sleep" by Matthew Walker. And, that's a very good book too. But, this one mentioned two things that he did not, which I think are very interesting. I'm going to incorporate them.

Brad: The whole book is full of little tidbits and solutions about how to sleep better. And, not only that, but he has science between all of them. He has a whole few, three, or four pages in the back of references.

Okay, let's get on with the program. Now, think about where you sleep. A lot of people, most people sleep in their bedroom, right?

Bob: Mm-hmm.

Brad: Now, keep that in mind. Now, if you go to get a massage, typically you want to get really relaxed, right?

Bob: Right.

Brad: So, you go into the room and the room is painted.

Bob: With warm colors.

Brad: Warm colors. The decor, everything is very peaceful and calm.

Bob: Right.

Brad: Maybe some music in the background.

Bob: Exactly.

Brad: The temperature is right. You lay down and you just feel wonderful.

Bob: You're setting the mood.

Brad: Yeah, you're setting the mood and oftentimes people feel like they could come out and fall asleep after that. So, the whole idea of that is your bedroom needs to be in the same setting.

Bob: Exactly.

Brad: Okay. So, these seven, he calls them rules. I don't know if rules are exactly the word, but options or suggestions are really, I think a good way to set up your room for that area. When you walk in there, your mind knows this is a place to sleep, subconsciously. And it's going to work.

Bob: And yeah, you want to have the habit that your mind kicks into this sleep mode every time it goes into that room.

Brad: It's just like children. When you have a child, an infant, they eventually learn that when they go to the bedroom at night, the door closes, the lights are out, they learn. They might cry a little bit, but eventually, they go to sleep.

Bob: And, they've got to learn that when they cry, nobody's going to come.

Brad: Right, yep. And, they'll fall asleep.

Bob: They have to self-soothe.

Brad: Yeah, we've got a two two-year-old granddaughter and we know she cries for about 30 seconds and she's out.

Bob: Oh, she is.

Brad: Very consistently. It works very well. So, as adults, we need to do the same thing. That number one thing.

Bob: Cry for 30 seconds? That would be me.

Brad: Whatever it takes Bob.

Bob: Yeah.

Brad: Your wife, we have to give her credit

Bob: There are issues.

Brad: The first one, the bedroom is only for two things. Number one is sleeping.

Bob: This is a family show, Brad.

Brad: That's exactly my point Bob. And, number two is for making families. We all know it's for that relationship building. Exactly. So, we have to get that in our mind. That's the number one rule. The next one, this can be real tough for a lot of people. No cell phones, no laptops, no TVs are going to be in the bedroom. Not only do they keep your mind active about other things that may get you ruminating and-

Bob: They put out blue light.

Brad: And, the blue light. It's a two-fold issue.

Bob: That blue light is working to keep you awake. It's telling your body it's supposed to be awake, that there's sunlight coming out.

Brad: And, it's got to do with the melatonin.

Bob: Melatonin, I believe.

Brad: Yeah. We don't have to get into that chemical part of it.

Bob: Brad, I'm going to add one right now that has nothing to do with the room at all. And this was, I know he's mentioned it and I know it was mentioned in the other book. They said the number one thing to help you is stay consistent with your time.

Brad: Yep.

Bob: Like, if you go to bed at 10:00 during the week, you should really try to get fairly close to that in the weekend too. And, I know that's hard, especially when you're younger and partying.

Brad: I was never that way Bob. And, you know that.

Bob: Yeah. (laughs)

Brad: No, I can relate.

Bob: So really, if your sleep is important to you, you've got to try to keep that consistency.

Brad: Right. Okay, so again, it's only for two things, sleeping and for making families. No cell phones, no laptops, TVs. Don't do any type of work.

Bob: Right.

Brad: Anything that's going to get your mind active, that's going to not allow you to sleep.

Bob: It's funny, we were just talking about this with Linda's nephew. He was working right 'til he went to sleep and he had so much trouble sleeping. And, that was the same with me, if I'm doing work too late and don't have enough wind downtime you don't sleep well

Brad: So, wind down appropriately an hour or so before you go to bed.

Bob: At least an hour.

Brad: Yep. Okay, the next one we're going to talk about air quality. Air temperature, we've talked about the 62 to 68 degrees Fahrenheit. Some people may vary, but you'll know when it's too warm. That's typically the biggest problem.

Bob: Oh, absolutely. It's so big of an issue with us at our house. Like, it's been cool out lately and we've had the windows open. Oh my god! I sleep so well.

Brad: That was the next thing, open the windows. If it's appropriate if it's not 20 below obviously or you've got a lot of traffic noise or whatever right outside that irritates you.

Bob: Well, unfortunately at 4:30 in the morning I have to close the windows because the birds are starting then. And, they're just loud as heck!

Brad: It's a beautiful thing, isn't it? I love the birds. But yeah, they can be a problem. The next thing is, well, for air quality, this is what we use in the wintertime. A humidifier. It's not very expensive. I'll put some water in there and let it blow out some humidity. Eliminates the dry mouth and the nose and that kind of thing.

Bob: I actually got a bloody nose this year again. From dry air.

Brad: Not good, I'm glad your wife didn't hit you.

Bob: Maybe she did?

Brad: This is another thing. If you've got allergies and stuff. Get an air purifier.

Bob: You're just going to breathe better.

Brad: We use one just occasionally, those times a year. And, so, there are all different kinds. We're not going to suggest what kind, but do some homework.

Bob: Yeah, there's a lot of them.

Brad: So, some people may not need that, may not need this. Another thing that works well for us is we use a little fan. And, you just that baby on. It gives you that white noise, but also just some air movement.

Bob: We've always, we've used this for 20 years.

Brad: Yeah, it's nothing new.

Bob: We have, you know, when we go to a hotel, we make sure we use their fan or we'll bring an app along, you know?

Brad: Oh yeah, right on your phone. That's a nice thing. But, my wife likes that air blowing right across.

Bob: Yep, so does my wife.

Brad: I don't.

Bob: I don't either. (laughs)

Brad: I just like to hear it, you know? I can blow it on the wall.

Bob: Exactly, but she's got it